Our belief that all our problems can be solved by science and technology is why we, as Indians, find ourselves in such a mucky situation.
On Growing Up Closeted and Fearful in India
At 14, I began learning how to pretend to be normal, as I was sure at that time that my feelings were just 'WRONG!'
How Do We Counter The Rise of Toxic Nationalism?
It's not enough to just be against nationalism. The new political movement needs to offer people a vision of harmony and true democracy.
When a Tempest Rips Through Town
Then came rain, giving voice to the sombre, silent clouds.
On Watching Trains Leave
A short piece on sitting on my grandfather's shoulders, watching the trains go by.
Why We Should Stop Saying that Section 377 is Just a Colonial Relic
In contemporary, post-colonial India, Section 377 is used for arbitrary detention, interrogation, extortion, harassment and rape. Homophobia isn't just a colonial trait.
I Don’t Feel Safe in My Own Country Anymore
I just want to be able to take the last metro without having to worry about that ten-minute auto ride home.
Why Do Women Wear Makeup Despite Knowing It’s a Scam? Game Theory Has an Answer
As women, we often hear people tell us things like ‘Women set unrealistically high standards of beauty for themselves!’ or ‘No one’s forcing you to pander to those standards.’ …
Putting On Makeup Feels Like Going to War With My Flaws (And Myself)
Why are women made to feel like we need to mask our 'imperfections'?
An Open Letter to Everyone Who Thinks I Have to ‘Look’ Sikh to Be Sikh
All my life, 'friends' told me I didn't 'look' Sikh enough. They have no idea how much hurt they caused.